It’s funny how we always keep concluding the dos and donts in a relationship. We all know those certain things that we have to never say or do, just like an invisible area you are barred from entering and everyone is so tempted to go in (just out of natural instinct). However, once you are in there, there is no going back. In simple words, you just screw up if you cross that line.
One moment you are like ‘Oh! Everything is so great’ and in a flip second you have a stupid fight and say something and BAM! It’s never the same again. Things changed, you flipped out.
Let’s see what these clear No-No areas are.
Don’t compare them with anybody. And this goes both ways, guys don’t compare your girl with anyone else, and girls keep your mouth shut even when the other man is so dreamy. We get it you see other people and get swayed away in the wind of how he/she is different, but just remember you got into this relationship because you love him/her. Stick to that, not everybody is same.
Don’t call them with someone else’s name. I know sometimes a thought about someone is stuck in your head and you might end up calling bae with someone else’s name, but it is a clear no-no thing. Just try harder and avoid such incidences. It just puts him/her off, totally souring their mood.
Don’t tell them that they do nothing to keep this relationship working. Well, this might be true in some cases and false in some. Judge your relationship carefully before saying anything like this. You might end up ruining everything because let’s accept it nobody like to get thrashed when they are genuinely trying as much as you are.
Don’t tell them they are useless. Especially when career is concerned or something they are really sensitive about. I’ll just repeat one line said by Rachel (F.R.I.E.N.D.S.) “Imagine the worst things you think about yourself. Now how would you feel if the one person that you trusted the most in the world thinks them too”